Part of being more BP is upgrading/hacking all of life. Something I have been hacking is thinking before I speak. Here are some questions to ask. Very useful in marriage, but also in all of life.
Watch Your Words Life Hack. Do I have good motives? Is my reason for saying it beneficial to the listener or only for selfish purposes?
There have been many times in my life that Iâ€™ve said something that is very true, but I only said it so someone will be impressed with me or because I was trying to manipulate them to do something for me.